How to Elope on the Beaches of California: A Step-by-Step Guide for Adventurous Couples
California’s stunning coastline offers countless breathtaking locations for couples looking to elope with their toes in the sand. From dramatic cliffs and rugged coastlines to serene, sun-soaked beaches, the Golden State is packed with picturesque spots perfect for an intimate elopement. If you and your partner are dreaming of a beach elopement, here’s a concise guide to help you plan the day of your dreams.
Step 1: Choose Your Perfect Beach Location
California is home to an incredible variety of beaches. Here are a few iconic locations as well as some of our personal favorites:
- Big Sur: If you’re after a dramatic, rugged coastline with towering cliffs and panoramic views, and redwoods not too far off, Big Sur is your ideal spot. There are more secluded beaches here where you can exchange vows with waves crashing behind you. Some of famous spots include McWay Falls and Pfeiffer Beach.
- Malibu: Famous for its upscale vibe and pristine beaches, Malibu offers both luxury and natural beauty. El Matador Beach, with its striking rock formations and caves, is a popular choice for elopements.
- Point Reyes National Seashore: Known for its artistic community and charming small-town feel, Laguna Beach features beautiful, secluded coves and sweeping ocean views. It’s perfect for couples looking for a mix of romance and relaxation.
- Santa Barbara: With its Mediterranean feel, Santa Barbara offers gorgeous beaches like Butterfly Beach and Leadbetter Beach. You can easily combine your elopement with a weekend of wine tasting and fine dining.
- Corona Del Mar Beach: For a more laid-back, serene atmosphere, CDM provides a secluded setting surrounded by rugged cliffs, rocky tidepools, and million dollar mansions. Its also great because of its proximity to a multitude of restaurants to celebrate at aftewards
- Alamere Falls – One of two of Californias rare coastal waterfalls – this spot cascades directly onto a pristine beach. It’s a secluded, adventure-filled location that combines the awe-inspiring power of nature with the intimacy of a private, romantic setting.
Step 2: Obtain a California Marriage License
Before heading to the beach, you’ll need to obtain a marriage license in California. You can get your license from any county clerk’s office in the state, and there’s no waiting period, so you can get married the same day.
What you’ll need:
- Both partners must be present.
- Bring a valid photo ID (such as a driver’s license or passport).
- There’s a fee for the marriage license, typically around $90.
Step 3: Secure Permits
Depending on the beach you choose, you may need a special event permit to hold your elopement ceremony. Some beaches are more relaxed, but popular spots like Big Sur, Malibu, and state park beaches typically require permits. Contact the local city or state park office to inquire about any necessary permits, fees, and rules.
Pro Tip: Always apply for permits early, especially if you plan to elope during peak tourist seasons or on weekends. Also, keep in mind that some beaches may have restrictions on decorations, chairs, or amplified sound.
Step 4: Plan Your Ceremony and Vendors
Even if your elopement is simple, planning a few details in advance will help ensure your day runs smoothly. Here are some key vendors to consider:
- Officiant: You can hire a professional officiant or have a close friend or family member get ordained online to perform your ceremony.
- Photographer/Videographer: Beach elopements offer stunning backdrops, so hiring a skilled photographer or videographer who specializes in outdoor and beach photography is a must.
- Florist: A bouquet or floral arrangement can add a pop of color and elegance to your beach setting. Look for florists who have experience creating arrangements that hold up in windy beach conditions.
- Hair and Makeup: Beach weather can be unpredictable, so it’s helpful to have a hair and makeup artist who knows how to create long-lasting looks that can withstand the elements.
Pro Tip: For a truly stress-free experience, consider hiring an elopement photographer who also offers planning so they can handle the logistics and ensure your day goes off without a hitch.
Step 5: Be Prepared for the Elements
California beaches are gorgeous, but they can also present some challenges when it comes to weather. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
- Wind: Beaches can be windy, so consider a hairstyle that won’t be ruined by a breeze. Pack extra bobby pins and hairspray just in case.
- Tides: Check the tide schedule for your elopement day to ensure your ceremony won’t be interrupted by rising waters.
- Sun: California beaches are known for their sunshine, so bring sunscreen and consider having a backup plan for shade if your ceremony is in the afternoon. Sunrise and sunset elopements are not only cooler but also offer the most beautiful lighting for photos.
Pro Tip: Pack a light jacket or shawl, as beach weather can turn cool in the evening, even during summer months. Comfortable shoes are also a must, especially if you plan to walk on rocky or uneven terrain.
Step 6: Keep It Simple and Personal
One of the best things about a beach elopement is that it allows you to focus on the things that truly matter—your love and commitment to each other. Let the natural beauty of the beach be your backdrop and keep your ceremony simple and personal.
Consider writing your own vows, incorporating a symbolic gesture like a sand ceremony, or simply letting the sound of the ocean serve as your wedding music. You don’t need much decoration for a beach elopement—just you, your partner, and the endless horizon.
Ready to elope on a California beach? Let’s make it happen! I’d love to help capture your special day and guide you through the process.